Dreams are just like flowers,we can't imagine our life without and as such we have to take care of just as we do with flowers to grow up as we want. Every one in this life has his own dreams and lam that one who has alot of dreams and l would like all my dreams to come true one day. One of my dreams is to take a trip around the world, so that l would be able to get knowledge and insight about that an unknown world for me. I know that is impossible to happen but l belive in God's power that can be able to turn the impossible to sth possible. For that l keep on praying him to make it true.
-By Shaista Yousuf
Wednesday, 4 May 2011
Rights of Special Children
Disabled children have every right as compared with other children. It is our duty to provide them with every opportunity to show their skills and talents. We should allow disabled children to work independently. They have a strong desire to work independently and you can see the happiness on their faces after an accomplishment of certain tasks. Every child has an individuality of his/her own depending upon certain skills and qualities. Sometimes we can see that children with disabilities can prove to be more talented than ordinary children or non-disabled children.
The main objective of teaching children with special needs is to make them independent by providing them with guidance for self-help skills, daily living skills, and vocational skills and also to help them to deal with daily life situations independently. Children with special needs have their own way of thinking, learning and adapting just like other children. They have the capability to perform each and every function of daily living independently with the help of some guidance. Their capacity for learning can be enhanced by the experiences they have in educational communities.
The most important point in fulfilling the special needs of special children is to identify their disability. Once a student's disability is identified by the teacher, he/she can prepare and collect suitable materials and can make suitable arrangements in the class for student's proper understanding and effective learning of the lesson. Thus a teacher can prove to be a real friend or guide for these children to help them live independently and succeed academically.
-By Shaista Yousuf
The main objective of teaching children with special needs is to make them independent by providing them with guidance for self-help skills, daily living skills, and vocational skills and also to help them to deal with daily life situations independently. Children with special needs have their own way of thinking, learning and adapting just like other children. They have the capability to perform each and every function of daily living independently with the help of some guidance. Their capacity for learning can be enhanced by the experiences they have in educational communities.
The most important point in fulfilling the special needs of special children is to identify their disability. Once a student's disability is identified by the teacher, he/she can prepare and collect suitable materials and can make suitable arrangements in the class for student's proper understanding and effective learning of the lesson. Thus a teacher can prove to be a real friend or guide for these children to help them live independently and succeed academically.
-By Shaista Yousuf
Loneliness
''Loneliness".
I fight it with all my strength, but so hard to beat- even when you're surrounded by people, friends, family. When you're alone in what you do, alone in what you feel, you're alone final. A million people can surround and love you, but you're still alone.
How do I fight it? I wish I knew, but I try. I try to make everyone go away, so I dont' have to feel so lonely. So that maybe when no one's around, I have nothing to feel lonely about because I'm with myself, and myself is who I can relate to most, is who knows me best, is who I can run or cry to and not be judged. Because then, even if I'm alone, I'm never alone.
And with all these people around me, I've never been so lonely.
-By Shaista Yousuf
I fight it with all my strength, but so hard to beat- even when you're surrounded by people, friends, family. When you're alone in what you do, alone in what you feel, you're alone final. A million people can surround and love you, but you're still alone.
How do I fight it? I wish I knew, but I try. I try to make everyone go away, so I dont' have to feel so lonely. So that maybe when no one's around, I have nothing to feel lonely about because I'm with myself, and myself is who I can relate to most, is who knows me best, is who I can run or cry to and not be judged. Because then, even if I'm alone, I'm never alone.
And with all these people around me, I've never been so lonely.
-By Shaista Yousuf
Parents are good teacher or not?
I am not fully agree with that parents are the best teachers.
Admittedly , parents have a great influence on their children. Form an infant to a child , people spend most time with their parents sitting together watching TV, talking about funny things happened around the neighborhood ,driving out for a picnic, etc. In a child's view, parents are absolutely right and very powerful. Consequently , children tend to imitate their parents behavior in daily life.
That's how the first and may be the most important education starts. It is parents who teach their children learn the rules of the society and the relationship between human beings. Remember you father told you to respect the old and to be truthful to your friends? According to a research, ninety percent of people reported knowing the principle of being a human and the basic of the world from their parents.
However, influence could be good and bad. Some parents really set bad examples for their children. There is a high rate of divorce in many countries and divorce can really mislead children's understanding to people's relationship. Form a survey , eighty percent of teenagers come from divorce families tend to behave more aggressively and unfriendly than those who come from normal families. What's worse, some parents smoke heavily , drink regularly or even behave violently in front of their children are not only bad for their physical health but also make damage to their metal health.
To sum up, I think parents can either have a positive or a negative influence on their children. So it won't be rational say all parents are good teachers even if most of them are doing a good job. It still depends on their morality and personality.
-By Shaista Yousuf
Admittedly , parents have a great influence on their children. Form an infant to a child , people spend most time with their parents sitting together watching TV, talking about funny things happened around the neighborhood ,driving out for a picnic, etc. In a child's view, parents are absolutely right and very powerful. Consequently , children tend to imitate their parents behavior in daily life.
That's how the first and may be the most important education starts. It is parents who teach their children learn the rules of the society and the relationship between human beings. Remember you father told you to respect the old and to be truthful to your friends? According to a research, ninety percent of people reported knowing the principle of being a human and the basic of the world from their parents.
However, influence could be good and bad. Some parents really set bad examples for their children. There is a high rate of divorce in many countries and divorce can really mislead children's understanding to people's relationship. Form a survey , eighty percent of teenagers come from divorce families tend to behave more aggressively and unfriendly than those who come from normal families. What's worse, some parents smoke heavily , drink regularly or even behave violently in front of their children are not only bad for their physical health but also make damage to their metal health.
To sum up, I think parents can either have a positive or a negative influence on their children. So it won't be rational say all parents are good teachers even if most of them are doing a good job. It still depends on their morality and personality.
-By Shaista Yousuf
Friday, 29 April 2011
Tangled
Hi again everyone!
Let’s just review the most hilarious Disney animated movie released a few months ago.
“Tangled” directed by Nathan Greno and Byron Howard.
This movie is based on the girl Rapunzel who had very long hair and lived in a tower where a witch named Gothel locked her up since she was a infant She kidnapped her from the palace after she discovered that the little girl is blessed with healing powers from a magical flower. The powers are said to grow in the golden hair of the beautiful little girl. She had to keep the magnificent power away from the world so Gothel kept her away from the world all her life. Unaware of her real identity, Rapunzel grew up to be a beautiful young teenager with beauteous 70 feet golden long hair and her only friend a chameleon whom she called Pascal.
The king and queen send out floating lanterns each year on Rapunzel’s birthday in hopes that she will return and by chance Rapunzel meets a wanted thief, Eugene aka Flynn Ryder, who makes a deal with the tiara he stole and to make her wish of seeing the lanterns come true. Thus the wonderful journey begins when the girl finally decides to escape from the tower and follow her dream.
From various clues she finds during her adventure her true identity. The journey is full of hilarious conversations, lots of arches, running, hiding, a policing horse named Maximus, bad guys with good hearts, a tinge of confusion plotted on purpose and a number of songs and you're good to go. Disney has changed the storyline a bit but kept it interesting throughout.
To know more about this hilarious, amazingly animated movie with flaws which won’t ruin the movie and a very enjoyable piece of family entertainment, you need to watch it!
Enjoy! :D
By Sidra Muzaffar
Let’s just review the most hilarious Disney animated movie released a few months ago.
“Tangled” directed by Nathan Greno and Byron Howard.
This movie is based on the girl Rapunzel who had very long hair and lived in a tower where a witch named Gothel locked her up since she was a infant She kidnapped her from the palace after she discovered that the little girl is blessed with healing powers from a magical flower. The powers are said to grow in the golden hair of the beautiful little girl. She had to keep the magnificent power away from the world so Gothel kept her away from the world all her life. Unaware of her real identity, Rapunzel grew up to be a beautiful young teenager with beauteous 70 feet golden long hair and her only friend a chameleon whom she called Pascal.
The king and queen send out floating lanterns each year on Rapunzel’s birthday in hopes that she will return and by chance Rapunzel meets a wanted thief, Eugene aka Flynn Ryder, who makes a deal with the tiara he stole and to make her wish of seeing the lanterns come true. Thus the wonderful journey begins when the girl finally decides to escape from the tower and follow her dream.
From various clues she finds during her adventure her true identity. The journey is full of hilarious conversations, lots of arches, running, hiding, a policing horse named Maximus, bad guys with good hearts, a tinge of confusion plotted on purpose and a number of songs and you're good to go. Disney has changed the storyline a bit but kept it interesting throughout.
To know more about this hilarious, amazingly animated movie with flaws which won’t ruin the movie and a very enjoyable piece of family entertainment, you need to watch it!
Enjoy! :D
By Sidra Muzaffar
Gender Stereotypes
Hello everyone, today I’d be talking about gender stereotyping. The society has built up several concepts of their own which are blindly followed, some of them turn out to be right and some don’t. But, that doesn’t matter to anyone. Gender stereotyping is very common since ever. I would be talking on the following types.
1) Women Can't Drive and Park- This is way too common isn’t it? Just type it on Google and see it for yourself. Why is that so, ever thought of it? Guys out there always say, look at the girls when they drive. It’s as if they are driving through a death hole, these ‘shes’ are always so nervous and sit so not relaxed. And that, women can never park. I agree that’s true but just in some places where this type is focused on. Fathers when buying or handing cars over to their daughters or wives always think ‘OH crap she is going to BUMP it somewhere’. But why? Give it a chance. Just because everyone says it, is the reason why women are so tensed when they drive. They don’t believe in themselves instead believe it that they won’t be able to do it.
2) Girls are fussy about their hair & guys could care less if their hair fell out- How weird is that! Why can’t guys dress up and do their hair and match clothes? I mean if girls want to look good guys can want the same. Why do we stamp a guy with ‘You’re a girl’ when he dresses up a little bit or works on himself, or on his skin or his hair. And especially in this fashion’ista world where every next person follows some or the other trend and if a guy works on himself he’s called a girly.
3) Guys are stronger and better at sports, and girls are destined to cook at home for the family-
No doubt, girls are the ones whose responsibility it is to look after the family but that’s doesn’t make a women less strong. If a girl wants to be an athlete or do something adventurous, people don’t take it into notice, or say ‘that’s not girls stuff, she’s wasting time’ , ‘stop behaving like a guy, you’re weak you can’t do it’ :S For these type of people I have a piece of a FACT. A man’s heart is 60gms heavier than a women’s and a women’s heart is 6 times stronger than a man’s.
4) Girls always cry and guys can’t cry- Helplessly I follow this type. It’s weird when I see a guy crying, I feel that maybe it’s something very BIG that’s happened which has made the guy cry. That’s because it’s set in our minds that guys are strong and can bare anything so they don’t cry. But come on, aren’t emotions built-in and sent in every human. What makes us say that guys can’t cry? Crying has biological theories too; it’s just so very natural.
5) Young boys play with action toys (such as super hero figures, trucks and guns) and young girls play with Barbies and Kitchen tools- Why have our parents or the society restricted young girls from playing with the other toys? This type can be very controversial about kids playing with guns and stuff but let’s not go there. The point is girls can play with the other cool toys too and a young boy can play with kitchen tools. That doesn’t make them any different from other kids.
Anyway, these are some types of stereotyping which turn out to be meaningless and irritating at times. This is the way stuff goes around. And sometimes discussing, changes traditional views.
By Sidra Muzaffar
1) Women Can't Drive and Park- This is way too common isn’t it? Just type it on Google and see it for yourself. Why is that so, ever thought of it? Guys out there always say, look at the girls when they drive. It’s as if they are driving through a death hole, these ‘shes’ are always so nervous and sit so not relaxed. And that, women can never park. I agree that’s true but just in some places where this type is focused on. Fathers when buying or handing cars over to their daughters or wives always think ‘OH crap she is going to BUMP it somewhere’. But why? Give it a chance. Just because everyone says it, is the reason why women are so tensed when they drive. They don’t believe in themselves instead believe it that they won’t be able to do it.
2) Girls are fussy about their hair & guys could care less if their hair fell out- How weird is that! Why can’t guys dress up and do their hair and match clothes? I mean if girls want to look good guys can want the same. Why do we stamp a guy with ‘You’re a girl’ when he dresses up a little bit or works on himself, or on his skin or his hair. And especially in this fashion’ista world where every next person follows some or the other trend and if a guy works on himself he’s called a girly.
3) Guys are stronger and better at sports, and girls are destined to cook at home for the family-
No doubt, girls are the ones whose responsibility it is to look after the family but that’s doesn’t make a women less strong. If a girl wants to be an athlete or do something adventurous, people don’t take it into notice, or say ‘that’s not girls stuff, she’s wasting time’ , ‘stop behaving like a guy, you’re weak you can’t do it’ :S For these type of people I have a piece of a FACT. A man’s heart is 60gms heavier than a women’s and a women’s heart is 6 times stronger than a man’s.
4) Girls always cry and guys can’t cry- Helplessly I follow this type. It’s weird when I see a guy crying, I feel that maybe it’s something very BIG that’s happened which has made the guy cry. That’s because it’s set in our minds that guys are strong and can bare anything so they don’t cry. But come on, aren’t emotions built-in and sent in every human. What makes us say that guys can’t cry? Crying has biological theories too; it’s just so very natural.
5) Young boys play with action toys (such as super hero figures, trucks and guns) and young girls play with Barbies and Kitchen tools- Why have our parents or the society restricted young girls from playing with the other toys? This type can be very controversial about kids playing with guns and stuff but let’s not go there. The point is girls can play with the other cool toys too and a young boy can play with kitchen tools. That doesn’t make them any different from other kids.
Anyway, these are some types of stereotyping which turn out to be meaningless and irritating at times. This is the way stuff goes around. And sometimes discussing, changes traditional views.
By Sidra MuzaffarMonday, 25 April 2011
The Major Change
Since birth I have lived in a country that is more than my home country to me. Life was so simple, peaceful, and organized back there. Everything seemed just too perfect, till I graduated high school. The hunt for universities began. Soon I realized that my city did not give me any choice for the majors I selected & then I had to widen my search. My search ended with PAF-Kiet and this is in PAKISTAN, my actual home country. The thought of shifting from Riyadh to Karachi was a nightmare, but HELL, I didn’t have any other choice. The day I stepped in the airplane, I felt the feeling, mothers in our culture describe to their daughters when they get married. :P LOL! I know it sounds weird. But, I could feel a strong sad vibe through me. That day was a Major Change in my life, everything was so different; from the bad dirty humid weather to the roads, cars, people, clothing, types of jokes, topics of conversation and so much more. I felt myself as a stranger in my own home country. I couldn’t understand and swallow the fact. It felt as if I had a slice of Apple horizontally stuck in my throat and I didn’t bother giving a try to get through.
As time passed I got used to the electricity load shedding, the surprising gas load shedding and the very bad weather. But I still couldn’t fit myself in a social circle. I know you might be saying, GOD!! Accept the fact and stop whining. But it wasn’t that easy. Every day I got to see new stuff, mostly weird. I saw men chewing Pan and spitting it almost everywhere except the inside of their house, so many shopaholic women which isn’t very odd but for me it was. Seeing so many beggars and disabled children disturbed me. The worst experience was birds shitting on people. Grrr…. :@ Anyway, the best part here was seeing women drive and that made me see myself driving a car someday, where back all my life this was just a dream.
Now, I’m in my university and can’t even recall how fast 6 months passed away. Although I miss home still the same but now I feel a part of Pakistan, a part of the busy, quarreling and fun filled life. The thought of shifting to any other part of the world wouldn’t have been that tough, because I had people around me that said that it was WAY TOO tough to live in Pakistan. But I guess this change is not that bad. Life here has taught me stuff in such a small span of time and I have gained a stamina do deal with changes; be it Good or Bad!
By Sidra Muzaffar
As time passed I got used to the electricity load shedding, the surprising gas load shedding and the very bad weather. But I still couldn’t fit myself in a social circle. I know you might be saying, GOD!! Accept the fact and stop whining. But it wasn’t that easy. Every day I got to see new stuff, mostly weird. I saw men chewing Pan and spitting it almost everywhere except the inside of their house, so many shopaholic women which isn’t very odd but for me it was. Seeing so many beggars and disabled children disturbed me. The worst experience was birds shitting on people. Grrr…. :@ Anyway, the best part here was seeing women drive and that made me see myself driving a car someday, where back all my life this was just a dream.
Now, I’m in my university and can’t even recall how fast 6 months passed away. Although I miss home still the same but now I feel a part of Pakistan, a part of the busy, quarreling and fun filled life. The thought of shifting to any other part of the world wouldn’t have been that tough, because I had people around me that said that it was WAY TOO tough to live in Pakistan. But I guess this change is not that bad. Life here has taught me stuff in such a small span of time and I have gained a stamina do deal with changes; be it Good or Bad!
By Sidra Muzaffar
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